There are 7.7 billion people in the world as of Oct 2019. How many different types of people are there in the 7.7 billion? I don’t know but no matter your nationalities and culture people are still people. People are humans we all have different characteristics and mannerisms but, in the end, we’re still humans.
While working in my masters I had several classes on personalities. In March 2019, I became a SYMBIS Facilitator. This program has been developed by Drs. Les and Leslie Parrott. To start the individual must answer 300 questions to determine their different personality aspects. Knowing your kind of personality and your mates or your friends contributes to better understanding of mutual strengths or weaknesses.
Why is that so important? It’s important because the more we recognize personalities the more our understanding and compassion will be toward others. Such as, type A or Chloric personalities are forward-thinking, they see the outcome, they take charge, but they have weaknesses too they might sound frank, bossy or sometimes brash.
There are various tests to determine your personality. These tests must be answered in all honesty in order to identify the true personality. Sometimes we imagine ourselves in a different way than we operate. A healthy viewpoint is to answer as best as possible.
Through our life we are changing and growing. Our personality does as well. Most of us are a combination of two types. Knowing people’s personalities helps not just in relationships, but on the job, school, church, and sports etc.
Individuals from all walks of life no matter where you live all around the world have personalities. Culture can contribute to the way you live but your real personality is part of your inner being.
A wounded person will not be fully plugged in to understanding their real personality. Survival mode makes the person put on a mask so that they can get through a violent or unhealthy situation whether in childhood or as an adult.
Parents that aren’t understanding or accept the child’s personality might squash the child’s soul and hence they put on the personality traits acceptable to the unhealthy parent.
As they grow, they may develop unhealthy defense mechanism due to living with another person’s interpretation of their life. Once these individuals are healed from the unacceptance they start to flourish an uncover their identity and personality.
Some of what children need growing up is positive affirmations, acceptance and affection. Such as if the child is very talkative give them a healthy outlet to express their words. Times have changed there is so much information out there to help empower your children and allow them positive ways to express their personality as it develops.
Why is it important because I believe to have empathy and compassion, we need to understand others where they are, so that we don’t try to make them like our personality.
I’m more of a do it now take-charge personality my husband is more stop, look at it and think about it then do it. We blend by these opposites because we accept our differences in our personalities and appreciate how it balances us.
Begin looking at people with eyes of understanding their personality and not judgement of it this produces compassion.
